As some of you may know majority of the scholars and imam have adopted the notion that Muslim men can marry 4 wives whenever he wants to. Some even say they can have more then 4 wives based from lies fabricated from Hadiths and not reading or understanding Quran. The Quran presents only one very specific situation in which a man may have more than one wife, but even then, God advises that it is better to be married to just one wife at any one time.
The imams, scholars, and men justify this by making ridiculous excuses such as their claim that men have a much higher sex drive than women, thus God accommodated men accordingly! To make such outrageous claims is devious enough, but they also support their claims with various notorious fabricated hadith which do nothing but slur the image of the righteous. One such hadith states:
Sahih Bukhari, Volume 1, Book 5, Number 268:
Narrated by Qatada
Anas bin Malik said, “The Prophet used to have sexual intercourse with all his wives one after the other during the day and night and they were eleven in number.” I asked Anas, “Had the Prophet the strength for it?” Anas replied, “We used to say that the Prophet was given the strength of thirty (men).” And Sa’id said on the authority of Qatada that Anas had told him about nine wives only (not eleven).
If we examine the Quranic evidence we find the concession given in the following verse:
“And if you fear that you may not be just to the orphans, then you may marry whom you please of the women: two, and three, and four. But if you fear you will not be fair, then only one, or what your right hand possesses. This is best that you do not face financial hardship.” 4:3
Notice how the word IF is used which is (inn in Arabic) at the beginning of this verse making it a conditional word. That means once a condition is met whatever after that word may take place.
With that being said if a man is not supporting any orphans nor being entrusted to protect the possessions of orphans, then it is not lawful for him to marry more then one wife.
In verse 4:2 God speaks of orphans, protecting their money, and warning against consuming their money unjustly. God is speaking to the men who are entrusted with the protection of orphans and their money. If a man fears that he cannot perform the duty as a guardian to the orphans and their money on his own, and in a just manner, then he is permitted to marry the woman of his choice to bring a motherly figure who would support the man in the raising of the orphans. God allows 2, 3 and 4 (depending on the number of orphans the man is taking care of).
Then later in the verse you see that it says
“But if you fear you will not be fair, then only one, or what your right hand possesses. This is best that you do not face financial hardship.” 4:3
This translation “what your right hand possesses” does not mean your slaves in this ayah.
One of the most abused expression in the Quran is the statement about “Ma Malakat Aymanukum”, which translates word for word as “What your right hand possess”. Many traditional Muslims have abused this statement. They have followed corrupted scholars who have innovated and fabricated laws that have no basis in the true Islam (Submission) and contradict the laws of God in the Quran.
When we study the verses that talk about “Ma Malakat Aymanukum”, or (MMA) for short, in the Quran, we will understand this sensitive issue.
MMA covers five categories of people. They can be men, women, boys or girls. The expression of MMA has different meaning in different verses although all of them fall under the same classification – a group of people who depend on you, almost totally, for their living requirements, security and well being. Quran teaches beyond doubt that MMA are part of our families who should be treated with respect and given their rights as human beings. Only in two categories out of the five MMA, is sexual relationship allowed and only after these MMA are part of a marriage (as a spouse) which means your married before you engage in sexual relationship. Under no circumstances does God allow in the Quran any man (or a woman), to have sexual relationship with their MMA unless the man and the woman become a husband and wife. Even in case of war, all the captured women (and men), fall under the protected MMA and cannot be considered sex objects. They should be treated with respect and asked for marriage, and given their due dowries. Rape of women during wartime is a crime as it is during peacetime. Righteousness is defined by an established moral value, that is best judged by the words of God in the Quran, and not by war or peace.
The following is a description of these categories of MMA in the Quran, the verses that mention them and the expected relationship:
1. Ma Malakat Aymanukum = what you already have.
The first category of MMA is the category of women who were already married to their husbands even if their marriages do not follow the Quranic rules because their marriage occurred before the revelation of the Quran or before their conversion to Islam. This can be understood from the wording of Surah 4 ayah 3
In this case, if you already have a wife or wives, even from a category that became prohibited after the revelation of the Quran, you can keep them. You do not have to divorce them as God would not break an established marriage. This category of MMA is considered permitted for these particular people and falls under what you already have. Since they are actually a married couple a sexual relationship is permitted.
[Quran 4:3] If you deem it best for the orphans, you may marry their mothers – you may marry two, three, or four. If you fear lest you become unfair, then you shall be content with only one, or with what you already have (Ma Malakat Aymanukum). Additionally, you are thus more likely to avoid financial hardship.
[Quran 33:50] O prophet, we made lawful for you your wives to whom you have paid their due dowry, or what you already have (Ma Malakat Yameenek) , as granted to you by God. Also lawful for you in marriage are the daughters of your father’s brothers, the daughters of your father’s sisters, the daughters of your mother’s brothers, the daughters of your mother’s sisters, who have emigrated with you. Also, if a believing woman gave herself to the prophet – by forfeiting the dowry – the prophet may marry her without a dowry, if he so wishes. However, her forfeiting of the dowry applies only to the prophet, and not to the other believers. We have already decreed their rights in regard to their spouses or what they already have (Ma Malakat Aymanuhum). This is to spare you any embarrassment. God is Forgiver, Most Merciful.
[Quran 33:52] Beyond the categories described to you, you are enjoined from marrying any other women, nor can you substitute a new wife (from the prohibited categories), no matter how much you admire their beauty. You must be content with those already made lawful to you (Ma Malakat Yameenek). God is watchful over all things.
2. Ma Malakat Aymanukum = What is rightfully yours.
This is the second category of the MMA, what is rightfully yours. In this category sexual relationship is allowed. We, however, have to be very careful in understanding God’s law in the Quran. God deliberately used the word OR when permitting the sexual relationships between men and their MMA. It is EITHER their spouses OR MMA. God did not choose AND in these particular verses, (their spouses and MMA.) God’s choice of His words is deliberate and He constructs His laws very clearly to leave NO doubt in the mind of His true worshippers. In this category of what is rightfully theirs, are situations where a man and a woman married each other without registering their marriage with the appropriate authorities. Common law marriage in USA is one of these cases where both the man and the woman agrees to live together as a husband and a wife in front of God but do not register their marriage. It can also include cases described in the first category where MMA becomes rightfully theirs by the permission given to them by God.
Short-term agreement between a man and a woman to have sex for any period of time is not included in this category. This short-term agreement is prostitution and is forbidden by God’s law in the Quran. In this short term agreement the man deprive the woman from her legal rights that a wife has, and free himself from having any obligation of a husband towards his divorced wife. The example of this short-term agreement to have sex between a man and a woman is what many scholars call Muta marriage. They make it legal, when it is against all the laws of marriage and establishing a family in the Quran.
[Quran 70:30] (They have relations) only with their spouses, or what is legally theirs – (Ma Malakat Aymanuhum)
[Quran 23:6] Only with their spouses, or those who are rightfully theirs (Ma Malakat Aymanhum), do they have sexual relations; they are not to be blamed.
3. Ma Malakat Aymanukum = slaves, if any.
Since slaves are dependent totally on their owner, they are considered MMA. Although the Quran advocates the freeing of the slaves in every possible occasion, the law is placed in the Quran to protect those who were slaves at the time of the revelation of the Quran and for those who may become slaves in any future time. Some of the visitors to our web site talk about their servants as if they were their slaves since they totally dependent on them. Slaves and servants are protected and not considered as sexual partners under any circumstance outside a lawful marriage.
[Quran 4:25] Those among you who cannot afford to marry free believing women, may marry believing slave women (Ma Malakat Aymanukum). God knows best about your belief, and you are equal to one another, as far as belief is concerned. You shall obtain permission from their guardians before you marry them, and pay them their due dowry equitably. They shall maintain moral behavior, by not committing adultery, or having secret lovers. Once they are freed through marriage, if they commit adultery, their punishment shall be half of that for the free women. Marrying a slave shall be a last resort for those unable to wait. To be patient is better for you. God is Forgiver, Most Merciful.
In this verse, God clarifies the status of MMA as being honorable women who may marry believing men after getting permission from their guardians. If these slave women are the sexual partners of their guardians, how can God offer them to the believing men? God asks them to MAINTAIN their moral behavior, by not committing adultery or having secret lovers. This verse clearly shows those slave women (MMA,) are not the sexual partners of their guardian.
[Quran 24:33] Those who cannot afford to get married shall maintain morality until God provides for them from His grace. Those among your servants (Ma Malakat Aymanukum) who wish to be freed in order to marry, you shall grant them their wish, once you realize that they are honest. And give them from God’s money that He has bestowed upon you. You shall not force your girls to commit prostitution, seeking the materials of this world, if they wish to be chaste. If anyone forces them, then God, seeing that they are forced, is Forgiver, Merciful.
Two important teachings are found in this verse – to free the slaves (servants) to get married and not to force the girls to commit prostitution. In this verse MMA, servants (slaves), can be freed from their slavery to get married, and even helped with money to do so. Had they been legitimate sexual partners of the owner or the guardian, they would not be available for marriage whenever they want to, as this verse teaches. Forcing them to have sex will be prostitution or rape.
4. Ma Malakat Aymanukum = servants.
Since our servants are dependent on us in their living, we are responsible for their well being but they are not our sexual partners. See what the Quranic verses teach about this category.
[Quran 24:31] And tell the believing women to subdue their eyes, and maintain their chastity. They shall not reveal any parts of their bodies, except that which is necessary. They shall cover their chests, and shall not relax this code in the presence of other than their husbands, their fathers, the fathers of their husbands, their sons, the sons of their husbands, their brothers, the sons of their brothers, the sons of their sisters, other women, the male servants (Ma Malakat Aymanuhunna) or employees whose sexual drive has been nullified, or the children who have not reached puberty. They shall not strike their feet when they walk in order to shake and reveal certain details of their bodies. All of you shall repent to God, O you believers, that you may succeed.
You see here that the ayah is referring to Male servants.
Below are other ayahs with the word MMA is referring to servants.
[Quran 33:55] The women may relax (their dress code) around their fathers, their sons, their brothers, the sons of their brothers, the sons of their sisters, the other women, and their (female) servants (Ma Malakat Aymanuhunna). They shall reverence God. God witnesses all things.
[Quran 24:58] O you who believe, permission must be requested by your servants (Ma Malakat Aymanukum) and the children who have not attained puberty (before entering your rooms). This is to be done in three instances – before the Dawn Prayer, at noon when you change your clothes to rest, and after the Night Prayer. These are three private times for you. At other times, it is not wrong for you or them to mingle with one another. God thus clarifies the revelations for you. God is Omniscient, Most Wise.
It is clear from this verse that your MMA (servants), do not have the permission given to your spouse (sexual partner) of freely entering your sleeping quarters. Had these MMA, servants, been considered your sexual partners, such a permission would not be needed. Other ayahs regarding the servant as the MMA.
[Quran 4:36] You shall worship God alone – do not associate anything with Him. You shall regard the parents, the relatives, the orphans, the poor, the related neighbor, the unrelated neighbor, the close associate, the traveling alien, and your servants (Ma Malakat Aymanukum). God does not like the arrogant show-offs.
[Quran 16:71] God has provided for some of you more than others. Those who are given plenty would never give their properties to their subordinates (Ma Malakat Aymanukum) to the extent of making them partners. Would they give up God’s blessings?
[Quran 30:28] He cites for you herein an example from among yourselves: Do you ever elevate your servants or subordinates (Ma Malakat Aymanukum) to the level where they rival you, and to the point that you pay them as much allegiance as is being paid to you? We thus explain the revelations for people who understand.
5. Ma Malakat Aymanukum = Special category of women who leave their disbelieving husbands during wartime and join the believers camp.
This category is also protected in the Quran and not exempted as sex slaves. They must be treated like any free woman, asked for permission for marriage and given all the due respect and payments that apply to a legal marriage. This is clarified in Surah 60 ayah 10.
[Quran 4:24] Also prohibited are the women who are already married, unless they flee their disbelieving husbands who are at war with you (Ma Malakat Aymanukum). These are God’s commandments to you. All other categories are permitted for you in marriage, so long as you pay them their due dowries. You shall maintain your morality, by not committing adultery. Thus, whoever you like among them, you shall pay them the dowry decreed for them. You commit no error by mutually agreeing to any adjustments to the dowry. God is Omniscient, Most Wise.
[Quran 60:10] O you who believe, when believing women (abandon the enemy and) ask for asylum with you, you shall test them. God is fully aware of their belief. Once you establish that they are believers, you shall not return them to the disbelievers. They are not lawful to remain married to them, nor shall the disbelievers be allowed to marry them. Give back the dowries that the disbelievers have paid. You commit no error by marrying them, so long as you pay them their due dowries. Do not keep disbelieving wives (if they wish to join the enemy). You may ask them for the dowry you had paid, and they may ask for what they paid. This is God’s rule; He rules among you. God is Omniscient, Most Wise.
God’s law is clear in the Quran. We, as submitters to our Creator, have no choice but to submit to such law. Any person breaking this law is not practicing Islam (Submission) and cannot be considered to be a Muslim (Submitter). Indeed, such individuals who do not submit to God’s laws are “Objectors” not “Submitters.”
[Quran 24:51] The only utterance of the believers, whenever invited to God and His messenger to judge in their affairs, is to say, “We hear and we obey.” These are the winners.
[Quran 5:7] Remember God’s blessing upon you, and His covenant that He covenanted with you: you said, “We hear and we obey.” You shall observe God; God is fully aware of the innermost thoughts.
[Quran 2:285] The messenger has believed in what was sent down to him from his Lord, and so did the believers. They believe in God, His angels, His scripture, and His messengers: “We make no distinction among any of His messengers.” They say, “We hear, and we obey. Forgive us, our Lord. To You is the ultimate destiny.”
Oh you women who been told and brainwashed to believe men can have more then one wife know that is a lie and it is only allowed in certain conditions. Do not let men oppress you to believe this is the case because it clearly is not. In certain cases ye women will fall victim to this oppression, do not harbor doubts about what was revealed in Quran or harbor ill thoughts about Allah when put into this evil situation. Know that Allah promise is true and forgiveness awaits you. Allah says,
[33:8] Subsequently, He will surely question the truthful about their truthfulness, and has prepared for the disbelievers (in this Quranic fact) a painful retribution.
[33:9] O you who believe, remember GOD’s blessing upon you; when soldiers attacked you, we sent upon them violent wind and invisible soldiers. GOD is Seer of everything you do.
[33:10] When they came from above you, and from beneath you, your eyes were terrified, your hearts ran out of patience, and you harbored unbefitting thoughts about GOD.
[33:11] That is when the believers were truly tested; they were severely shaken up.
[33:12] The hypocrites and those with doubts in their hearts said, “What GOD and His messenger promised us was no more than an illusion!“
[33:22] When the true believers saw the parties (ready to attack), they said, “This is what GOD and His messenger have promised us, and GOD and His messenger are truthful.” This (dangerous situation) only strengthened their faith and augmented their submission.
[33:24] GOD will surely recompense the truthful for their truthfulness, and will punish the hypocrites, if He so wills, or redeem them. GOD is Forgiver, Most Merciful.
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